Why Travel Writer Pat Yale Never Left Turkey

Pat Yale sitting on a rock while hiking on a sunny day

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Welcome to our next installment of Foreign Women of Turkey! This time, I had the surreal pleasure of speaking with Pat Yale, a veteran travel writer whose work has shaped how thousands of travelers experience Turkey.

Pat first visited Türkiye in 1974 and eventually stayed for good. Over the past 26 years living here, she has written guidebooks, explored nearly every corner of the country, and spent 18 years living in a cave house in Cappadocia before settling in Istanbul.

As someone who has personally used her books while traveling around Turkey, interviewing her felt a little like meeting a celebrity.

Beyond her impressive career, what struck me most was the depth of her connection to this country, from village tea sessions with women in Cappadocia to witnessing how Turkey has transformed over the decades.

In this interview, Pat shares what first drew her to Turkey, how the country has changed since the 1970s, her favorite lesser-known places, and why she never returned to the UK.

Her perspective feels especially refreshing in a world of fast-paced travel content because it comes from decades of actually living here, not just passing through.

If you’ve ever wondered what makes someone fall in love with Turkey deeply enough to stay for life, I think you’ll really enjoy her story.

Pat Yale shows her author photo in the Lonely Planet guide to Turkey

Pat, what originally brought you to Turkey?

Have you ever met your celebrity crush?

Pat is a travel writer from the UK who used to write the Lonely Planet travel guide for Turkey and many other books and essays.

I have personally bought four of her books and use them often.

Pat is the OG (Gen Z-speak for “expert”), whose writing has guided thousands of people in their visits to Turkiye.

As a travel blogger, I’m just following in her footsteps.

When I reached out to interview her, I felt like I was reaching out to a celebrity, who turned out to be happy to talk to me! What a thrill!

I hope you enjoy reading this interview as much as I enjoyed doing it. The interview has been edited for clarity and length.

Pat Yale

Well, I think you would say that I was a tail-end hippie. So I came for the first time in 1974, straight out of school.

During that trip, I stood in the square between the Blue Mosque and the Hagia Sophia and thought that they were the same date because they had a similar profile.

And when I found out later that there were 1000 years between them, I realized that I knew nothing literally, really.

In 1991, I was commissioned to write what became one of the first guidebooks that I worked on. Then I was coming every couple of years, until in 1998, I just thought I’d like to spend more time in Turkey.

So I thought, I’m going to take a year out, and learn Turkish, and understand the rhythm of an Islamic year as opposed to a Christian year.

And then the assumption was I’d go home. Instead, I’m still here 26 years later…

What was your first impression, and how did it change over time?

The abiding impression on my first trip here was of the incredible hospitality of the people.

On that first visit [in 1974], there were actually a couple of very unfortunate incidents, but they were balanced by the hospitality and friendliness of the people we met.

I think I also had never heard the call to prayer before.

It affects Westerners in different ways, but for me, it was as if a page turned in a book, and the rest of the world was suddenly alive.

That was what the call to prayer was for me.

It lodged itself incredibly deeply inside me so that when I came back, that overrode any negative things that might have happened.

And how did it change? I mean, of course, everything has changed.

On that first trip, we were driving, and I can remember several times we actually had to get off the road because there were only roads with one lane in each direction, and there were these ancient lorries [trucks] that would try to overtake but couldn’t.

So if you were coming from the other direction, ultimately, you had to get off the road.

I remember a number of instances of going into a field because the alternative was colliding with a lorry that wouldn’t fall back.

When you think of that, and then you think of the incredible highways today, everything has changed in that sense.

What’s one thing you’d like to communicate to others about life here?

People often ask me, “Do you think I would like living here?” And I say to them, it depends.

You have to look at your own personality.

If you’re the sort of person who likes complete order and structure and you want to know how every day is going to go, then this is not going to be the place for you.

But if you’re the sort of person who kind of thrives on a bit of uncertainty, a bit of serendipity, a bit of taking each day as it comes, then I think you will be happy here.

What’s your favorite hidden gem within Turkey?

Well, I’ve got to be absolutely frank with you and say that these days, I’m highly reluctant to ever mention anything that is a hidden gem, because you just know that it will be destroyed immediately.

Obviously, Cappadocia is not a ‘hidden’ gem. But I lived there very happily for 18 years. I assume that people who visit now would still find it absolutely wonderful.

My problem is that I like so much of Turkey. I mean, I personally like the very Turkish inland towns, places like Amasya, Tokat, and Sivas.

And I have a great love for the South East of Turkey, for the very different towns of Urfa and Diyarbakir, and places like that.

Pat Yale rests at the top of Mount Hasan

How do you survive the brutal summers?

With great difficulty!

This last summer, I barely ventured out of the house until 5 p.m., when it started to cool down.

What I usually say to myself is, have a project that you’re going to do over the summer that doesn’t require going out, for example, research or something like that.

Just accept that you’re going to really have to hunker down and stay put.

What is something that would be on your “must-see” list for someone coming to Turkey?

I frankly think most first-time visitors really want to see Topkapi, Hagia Sophia, the Blue Mosque, Kapali Carsi [the Grand Bazaar], and possibly one of the museums.

They probably want to see Cappadocia and go to one of the coastal resorts. It’s a very standard trip.

If they’re a second-time visitor, then it’s more interesting.

You can go out to the [Prince’s] Islands. You could go down to Troy and see the new museum. You can go to Bursa. I actually think Bursa is really interesting.

Recently, I was with a guidebook writer friend who was looking at Western Anatolia, and I suggested to her that we go to the ruins of Kibyra.

These are absolutely incredible ruins, but they won’t be in any of the guidebooks because they’ve only been excavated relatively recently. So in Turkey, it is still possible to go to places that really are little known outside Turkey.

The nature of guidebooks has changed so that guidebook writers have less time.

They don’t have the time to go out exploring. They can only check the main things to make sure they’re up to date.

But that doesn’t help the places that are a little bit off the beaten track.

Kibyra should be overrun with people like all the better-known sites, but you’re going to have it to yourself.

How did you learn about the culture?

I went to live in Göreme, in Cappadocia, and stayed there for 18 years in what was, at the time, a living neighborhood.

My primary interest was to befriend the women and be part of the female life there.

I learned the culture from them, from our endless tea sessions together, going from house to house, and just generally, picking up bits and pieces as I went along.

But it does mean that I’ve got a somewhat Anatolian view of culture. Sometimes when I’m in Istanbul, I listen to young Istanbulites talking about cultural things as if they’re dead, as if they don’t exist anymore.

And I think the culture of Anatolia is still alive in Anatolia.

I can recall going to my first Cappadocian wedding.

We had our fingers henna’ed, and then I came up to Istanbul shortly afterwards. Seeing people staring at my fingers, I realized that, actually, in middle-class Turkey, things like this don’t happen anymore.

I would say that when people come to the tourist areas, it’s quite easy to walk away with the idea that Turkish culture is not that different from Western culture.

But I think the longer that you are here, the more different it seems. You come to understand the differences and the little details of life more.

Book cover of Following Miss Bell, a book by Pat Yale

What got you into Writing About Turkey?

I was a travel writer in the UK, and then I was invited to ghostwrite a book about Turkey in the first phase of ecotourism. It was called The Good Tourist in Turkey.

And so, having done that, I was invited by the Lonely Planet author to work with him. We worked together for several editions, and then I continued on.

I was lucky enough to have the chance to visit pretty much everywhere in Turkey. I had extraordinary experiences while doing the book, and got to meet fantastic people and see such wonderful places.

Now I’m trying to move on into narrative travel writing, and the first book that I’ve had published along those lines is Following Miss Bell: Travels Around Turkey in the Footsteps of Gertrude Bell.

Do you miss home? If so, what about it?

The short answer is no.

I miss my friends. I have some very close friends who I love dearly, and I do miss them. I have a wonderful time when I visit them.

But no, I don’t really miss the UK. I always feel that actually I was born in the wrong place, that I should have been born in Turkey.

I find it easier to feel rooted and happy and enjoy my life here than I did in the UK.

What is one thing you wish you knew before moving here?

I wish I’d known that I was going to spend my life here because then I would have started learning Turkish immediately.

If I had started in 1974, I would have spoken fluent, beautiful Turkish, and I’d have been able to read it fluently. But I started at age 45, and by then, your brain doesn’t absorb language in the same way.

Pat Yale in front of a statue of a cat in things-to-do-in-kadikoy

How has the different system here made it easier or harder to do what you wanted to?

I think for all writers, the problem with Turkey is that you constantly have in the back of your mind the subjects that are very controversial to talk openly and freely about. So a number of red flag issues.

But in many other ways, it is easier to be a writer here because Turkish people are open. Of course, that’s a gross generalization, but they are more open than British people, and they are usually quite happy to chat.

For example, when I was researching Following Miss Bell, I encountered incredible helpfulness from people.

One time, I rocked up to a lawyer in his office and asked, “I want to know this, do you know where this is?” And he just said, “We’ll close the office now and go off and find it.”

I said, “What if someone wants some legal advice?” and he said, “Boş ver [don’t worry about it]!”

In the UK, you would probably have to make that appointment six months in advance. And send them a list of what you wanted to know and all the rest of it.

So you have to kind of balance the two things, really.

If you could tell someone who wanted to visit Turkey one thing, what would it be?

I would say that Turkey’s an incredibly hospitable, friendly place.

However, I would balance that with saying that people who work in tourism can use that hospitality to lure you into their carpet shop, etc.

So I’ve often had to balance the need to be careful that you don’t let yourself be sucked into something you don’t want to be part of, while also managing somehow to be open so that you go along with opportunities that present themselves.

The things that present themselves unexpectedly are often the most interesting things and the ones that you’ll remember later.

If you manage to find someone who is genuinely just being nice and helpful, then you will have a very memorable experience.

If you could tell someone who wanted to move to Turkey one thing, what would it be?

Recent events have completely altered what I would have said even one or two years ago, because it has actually gotten considerably harder for someone who wants to move here in the last year.

Prices have risen to levels not that different, probably from where someone might be moving from.

But also, the rules on getting a residency permit have changed, and it is now considerably harder to get residence for more than six months.

My main message is that you need very up-to-date information because if you read something that has been written about moving to Turkey in the past, it’s likely to be a very different situation from the current one.

Pat Yale holds a cat in the courtyard of a mosque

How can people get in touch with you?

You can find me on X (Twitter) at @patyale.

What We Can Learn From Pat Yale’s Journey

Talking with Pat Yale reminded me that the most meaningful travel experiences rarely come from rushing between famous landmarks.

They come from staying long enough to notice the small details like shared tea, conversations with neighbors, unexpected kindness, and the rhythms of daily life that most tourists never see.

What I loved most about Pat’s story is that her relationship with Turkey wasn’t built through a single dramatic moment. It grew slowly over decades of curiosity, openness, and genuine connection to the people and culture around her.

Her perspective also feels especially valuable today, when so much travel content focuses on quick highlights and viral destinations instead of deeper cultural understanding.

Whether you’re planning your first trip to Türkiye, dreaming about living abroad, or simply curious about the country through the eyes of someone who has spent decades exploring it, I hope this interview gave you a new perspective on what makes Turkey such a fascinating place.

It also made me want to book another trip to Cappadocia immediately.

Turkey Vacation Basics

When I plan a trip these are the websites I use. I hope they help you plan your next adventure as well!

FLIGHTS: I am a huge fan of Skyscanner.

VISAS: You can use the free e-visa portal here but for a few extra dollars you can use iVisa and someone else will handle any issues that may come up.

E-SIM: When I traveled to SE Asia I discovered e-sims and I’m never going back. Airalo has been easy and cheap!

TRAVEL INSURANCE: I use TravelInsurance.com for my trips abroad.

CAR RENTAL: I have loved working with Discover Cars when I rent cars in country.

AIRPORT TRANSFERS: I have used these transfers many times and they are always great. If you’d like more options, I also recommend GetTransfers.com as they allow you to compare companies.

ACCOMMODATION: Find the best Turkey hotel deals on Booking.com.

CITY TOURS & DAY TRIPS: You can browse GetYourGuide’s website to find just the tour you’re looking for! We also recommend the MegaPass for major cities.